For both partners:

Should we eat or drink anything before sex?

Try not to eat a heavy dinner, since that will simply make you lethargic. Eat light, and don't drink a lot of liquid, if any whatsoever. It might assist you with shedding inhibitions yet in addition make his erection significantly more challenging to achieve.

For him: What if I can't get it up?

It might sound amusing, however your penis, which has turned out perfect for quite a long time, may out of nowhere take to the streets at your most memorable possibility at "genuine" sex. That is natural - you're nervous. Take a full breath. Achieve something different for some time with your hands, your lips, and your tongue with her. Attempt to disregard your uneasiness, and your penis will answer. It's just something brief.

Should I tell her if I am a virgin?

Many men feel that since they're men, they ought to be accountable for the sex, paying little mind to who has more insight. Tell her, If you're a virgin and she's not, and let her lead assuming she wishes. This is as much a growth opportunity as a caring one. Go ahead and admit reality.

For her: What do I do first?

You can't anticipate that he should understand what encourages you. You'll need to tell him or show him, and that might mean taking initiative, taking his hands and putting them where they encourage you. Go sluggish. Assuming it's his most memorable time, he likely could be absolutely anxious about what you're going to do, and his penis may not answer from the start. Patience, gentleness, and understanding are required to bring it back to life, and that might be difficult for you to accomplish.

Will it hurt?

You have likely heard horror stories about how much losing your virginity harms. For a couple of ladies, it does, however with the right touch and the right accomplice, you ought to have the option to bring his penis into your body without torment. Have him take as much time as necessary, utilize an ointment, and press his fingers into you, opening you up leisurely. Let him know when it feels significantly better and when it harms.